What do I need from you?

This is a kink friendly, sex positive, dance friendly, costume mandatory, debauchery welcome space. You may participate in as much or as little as you desire within our parameters, as long as extensive enthusiastic consent is taking place (more on that below).

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All of our events have a professionally monitored BDSM dungeon + playful plounge.

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If you have any further questions about what kind of play is permitted in the space, please do not hesitate to email us through our website or message Mistress Salem Burns on fetlife

https://fetlife.com/users/16806036

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NO PENETRATIVE OR ORAL SEX. Blood play (outside from performers/performances who have been given special permission), water sports and skat play are also prohibited.

If this is restrictive to you, you're not thinking creatively enough ;) 

NOTE: Genital play and oral sex is permitted at our Sapphic Glad Day event.

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DO NOT INTERRUPT A SCENE. If someone is playing with someone else in the dungeon or the plounge, do no interrupt them unless they explicitly invite you in. Those in the scene have right of way. 

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ARRIVE EARLY. Upon arrival, you will be briefed on the code of conduct for the evening. This will require an extra few minutes at the door. Please arrive early to avoid congestion at the door and don't miss the performances.

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DRESS CODE IS IN EFFECT. That means NO STREET CLOTHES. Please come in your fetish or costumed best. We will turn you away at the door if you don’t make an effort.

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RADICAL CONSENT ALWAYS.  Consent is extremely 100000% mandatory. Remember: only an enthusiastic YES MEANS YES!

Ask everything from can I talk to you, can I dance with you to can I touch you etc. Always ask first, state your own boundaries clearly, accept rejection respectfully, never assume anything. 

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CONSENT IS GIVEN. Not coerced or pressured. Consenting to one thing does not mean you consent to more. If you don't understand the request, ask to have it clarified. A “yes” should be enthusiastic or it's a no. You can change your mind at any time. If you think you are asking for too much consent too often, that’s probably the right amount.

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MODERATE YOUR SUBSTANCE INTAKE. There will be a bar available, but we have a zero tolerance policy for irresponsible intoxication. If you get too intoxicated, you will be asked to leave.

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ADULT ACTIVITIES WILL BE TAKING PLACE AT THIS EVENT. You are likely to encounter nudity and adult activities on site. There is never an expectation for any guest to participate, but please be respectful of those participating, and always ask before interacting with anyone. 

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RESPECT OUR SPACE AND EACH OTHER. This is a queer foreword space. Salem welcomes an inclusive community and folks of all sexual orientations, gender expressions, abilities, body types, and racial identities/ethnicities. Disrespectful behavior will not be tolerated.

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ABIDE BY OUR RULES. Vibe check will be wearing glowing arm bands all night. If you witness behavior at the event that goes against our code of conduct, don’t be afraid to speak up, It’s up to all of us to help ensure a safe space for our fellow guests.  We encourage you to speak to one of the helpers on duty if you have any concerns, require assistance or need some grounding.

 

Thank you to the Kinky Salon for providing a template for code of conduct, ya’ll are the sexiest.